When the pain and stress of today's lifestyle whipsaws your nerves to a frazzle, do you sometimes long for a more sedate and structured life? Does the Victorian era ever capture your imagination? A time when the hydrogen bomb didn't threaten, the ecology hadn't become to be strangled, war was a business of soldiers and the telephone was a novelty instead of a necessity. Or, if you had been Amy Trowbridge of Massachusetts, would you have longed for more modern communications or an expert in psychiatry?