There's an old saying 'you'll do it and like it!' and of course a man can, by physical force make you do it. How would you like to have it so that you would like it too? There are two basic ways you can be happy in this world. One is to have everything you want in just the way you want it and never have any difficulties or troubles. This method is ideal, but not very probable. The other method, for absolute complete happiness, would be to like anything that you've got, no matter what it was. The first approach is the one that makes sense, that we work for and earn. The other one seems so much easier...